A month ago I told J's SW that I was going to go away in November for a week. We discussed that this would be a good opportunity for J to have a LONG visit with his grandparents to give them a better idea what it would be like to have him full time. We discussed dates. Two weeks later we talked about it again...
I just put him in the driver's car to go for his visit. I have NO idea if I said goodbye for 4 days or 14...sigh
His SW called this morning and appologized for forgetting and would said she would get back to me this afternoon to let me know...
sigh
Was it 4 or 14?
ReplyDeletecrazy thing! he left Friday morning and later that morning his SW came to my house for a meeting, and it was decided he would come home Sunday night and then leave again Tuesday morning until a week Wednesday. BUT someone screwed up and didn't set up drivers to accomodate this so he didn't get back home with me until Monday afternoon and then he left Tuesday at noon(they didn't want him gone the whole time straight so the grandparents couldn't complain it was too long...so they had to give them minimum 24 hours break before the 8 day stretch). Then I had to come home from my vacation after the 8 days as the grandparents couldn't have him longer than that yet...sigh..which is kinda crazy since one day very soon, the judge is going to order him home to them forever....
DeleteIt all sounds so complicated. I'm sure J doesn't know if he's coming or going or where he's going to be. What a hard situation for the little guy (and you & CO too).
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