Well the judge read the paperwork yesterday and....wants more. Next court is the 24th (two days after his 3rd birthday) so as long as the paperwork is submitted on time and not procrastinated on...J will be picked up late on the 24th by the SW and moved to go live with his grandparents.
The SW came today. She is going to find out exactly what this 'more paperwork' is that the judge wants but she thinks it has to do with access with bio mom.
SO
two more weeks
I am torn, because it is so hard on both the boys for J to be only with us three days a week. It is hard for him to transition from his two so totally different worlds. It is hard on CO because we are all in limbo.
It is a pain to have to retrain J every week to use manners, to feed himself, to not use certain 'not nice' words, to eat, obey, etc. But it is part of the job of foster parenting....which is what I have signed up for...it usually takes 1.5 of the 3 days to get the kinks worked out and my sweet boy back. tiring
It would nice for J to just be settled. Once he is moved, then he will hopefully not have to feel like he is having to choose between all the people that love him. His bio family is often giving him false information about us and it must be confusing for him.
I really hope for his sake that this move is successful...
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